Child birth is the only experience that truly makes a woman complete. This journey of child birth may not be an easy one for the mother but the reward of holding your baby in your arms truly makes up for all the hardships.
Each woman has own expectations from her child birth experience. Some would want a natural child birth; some would directly head for the operation theater to avoid the painful journey.
Unarguably natural child birth is a healthier option both for the mother and the baby. As natural child birth process does not involve any medication, the mother is more in control of her body.
The baby also arrives being more active and alert as it has not been drugged. These babies are more responsive than the drugged ones.
Another interesting aspect of natural child birth is that the breast feeding process for the baby becomes easier as then there is substantial amount of eye contact between the mother and the baby.
Although these advantages are no less known to the doctors it still becomes making natural child birth a little difficult. Firstly, you as a mother should strongly make up your mind to have a natural child birth. Then you must ensure that your doctor supports the decision. Both the partners should attend proper classes to get trained in natural child birth.
You can also read about other mothers’ experiences of natural child birth on the internet or in various magazines. All the experiences that you read might not be pleasant ones but remember that they are the most memorable ones.
Choose to give birth outside a hospital setting, probably a birth center or your own home. Don’t give up, natural child birth may take a lot longer than you expect but finally the wait will pay off so hold on and avoid C-section.
As the due date comes nearer, keep your self busy with regular activities to avoid anxiety. Pack your bags in advance, keep a light romantic novel to keep you distracted. Carry lots of snacks like cookies, dry fruits etc. Don’t forget to pack comfortable clothes that will allow you to move freely during contractions. Music can also help to soothe you in pain.
While you are at it don’t forget to change positions, it will help, relieving back discomfort, reducing contraction pain, rotating the baby as well as increasing circulation. Try and breathe in rhythmic pants as you had practiced in the classes.Be strong willed and you would be holding your baby in your arms not before long.
Just remember that pregnancy does bring us moments of pure joy, despite some of its challenges. In fact, the stage of pregnancy can be a very interesting metaphor for life. Daily challenges, sometimes even pain, but little glimpses of joy all along the way!